Behind Mother’s Day in Indonesia: Unveiling the History and Societal Constructs
Without diminishing the pivotal role played by mothers, I wish to offer a nuanced perspective on the commemoration we observe today — Mother’s Day in Indonesia.
As Indonesians nationwide celebrate Mother’s Day today, not all may be cognizant of the historical narrative underpinning this observance and the rationale behind its inception.
The history of Mother’s Day in Indonesia can be traced back to the inaugural Indonesian Women’s Congress convened from December 22–25, 1928, in Yogyakarta. From this congress, three motions related to women were set forth. First, the formulation of a steadfast organization with the establishment of the “Indonesian Women’s Union”. Second, the cultivation of awareness concerning women and society at large. Third, the commemoration of the struggles and resilience exhibited by women.
In retrospect, Indonesia’s inaugural president, Ir. Soekarno, promulgated Presidential Decree No. 316 of 1959, designating December 22 as the national Mother’s Day.
Scrutinizing this historical backdrop prompts an inquiry: why is the primary women’s movement construed narrowly as Mother’s Day rather than a more encompassing Women’s Day?
This construct fosters a belief that to be regarded as “a woman,” one must assume the role of a mother; childbirth becomes a prerequisite. This imposition of societal expectations suggests that women must fulfil these assumptions to be deemed “complete” and worthy of celebration.
Subsequently, it provokes additional queries: What if an individual cannot fulfil the role of a mother due to health constraints? Does this render them less of a woman? Furthermore, even if one can bear children, what if the inclination to do so is absent? Does this preclude them from being deserving of appreciation?
In essence, December 22 is intended to be a day of collective celebration for ALL Indonesian women. Today signifies a call to women across Indonesia for the ideals we have championed for nearly a century: equal opportunities and rights, and the autonomy to pursue aspirations within the bounds of ethical considerations. December 22 is envisioned as a day wherein all women in Indonesia revel in their freedom from societal pressures, affirming their status as liberated human beings.
In recognizing the history and complex societal constructs surrounding Mother’s Day in Indonesia, let us collectively propel towards a future where every woman embraces her independence and autonomy. It is time to champion equal opportunities, dismantle stereotypes, and forge a path where women are celebrated not just as mothers, but as individuals free to pursue their aspirations.
Together, let’s stand for a society that empowers and uplifts every woman on her journey towards independence and self-realization.
